By observing, you can notice that every human being has a time, or shall we say a ‘phase’ where they just need to stop, take a breath and OBSERVE whats truly going on. I don’t personally know you, but you don’t seem to be a follower, you have more characteristics of a Leader than a Follower.
Routine is generally used by followers not Leaders. For the reason that leaders tend to be more dynamic and know what’s right and wrong rather than study what’s right and wrong. You are still young and im sure there are many things you are capable of doing.

First, you can change ‘within yourself’. Ask yourself:-
- Am I happy?
- Am I relaxed?
- Again, am I really happy?
You can only enjoy life if you are happy or if you are willing to be happy. A strong tool not all human beings have is the willingness to do things, to accept things, to try things. It’s all about willingness.

Secondly, your appearance
- Do I like the way I look?
- What do people think of my appearance?
- Does my appearance need to change?
You tend to hear a lot of people say how the ‘inside’ matters more, but the truth is that is a lie. You need to look as good outside as you do inside. In other words, shed a few pounds, groom yourself properly, have a good posture, and a strong hand shake. You need to ‘be’ and give an impression that ‘you are’ a confident, happy, well groomed gentleman. (and make sure you open doors for girls!)


Last but not least, relax!
To be happy and successful you need a ‘relaxing’ gateway! And Im not talking about a bedroom to sleep in, but a different type of relaxation.
There is no point in being successful if you’re not happy and relaxed because you won’t be able to enjoy the experience, and if you don’t enjoy the experience, whats the point of the transition???
- Relax and Learn, relax by making new foreign friends and learn for their culture and experiences.
- Relax and exercise, exercise hard and be fit then relax by having that ‘fresh’ feeling after the gym.



To conclude, you can take it or leave it but its only you that can make a difference in yourself and non of us can convince you. You need to really really really want this for it to work!! Because if you don’t have the will power than forget it and stay the way you are.